Friday, October 06, 2006
Children at Risk
None of the parents I know need a fresh dose of front page brutality to remind them that their children are always and everywhere at risk. In September our household was awakened one night by a shock of thunder. In the morning, at the bus stop, we discovered a long gash running down the light pole, and dagger-like splinters the size of piccolos and flutes were sprayed around us on the sidewalk and far out into the street. We get our reminders from Mother Nature, too.
But parents already know by heart a little list of episodes – if we’re lucky, these are just close calls. There’s a neighbor who advertised a garage sale with a cardboard sign stuck to a rickety ladder out on the sidewalk. A moment after our toddler walked by, a breeze caught the sign and tipped the whole thing over. The ladder accelerated and the edge of its top plank struck hard at the pavement right where the toddler had been a second or two before. Every parent has stories like these.
But that’s nature, and chance. What about human weakness? Just the other day I said to our young person, “In the next few years some of your classmates are going to try out destructive and self-destructive acts.” She said, “Some already have.” The recent school shootings are an extreme case, and they’re a terrible tragedy, but they aren’t a surprise. It’s a violent country in a violent world.
Even our entertainment is resoundingly violent. One family we know decided 18 years ago that they weren’t going to have a tv in the house. With that single gesture, how many hundreds of hours of murder and mayhem did they bar from their child’s psyche? She grew up to be vice-president of her school’s Amnesty International club. Still, a parent never knows what threat will pop up out of the wind, what poison will be in the air, what brutality will suddenly materialize.
There is a time when we first see our child at risk. For me it was a blustery October day when I took our six-month old out for a walk. She rode captain-like on my arms, and turned her face into the breeze, and a yellow wasp stepped out of that breeze onto her little round cheek. She didn’t feel it, so the wasp calmly began to clean itself. I knew that a sting would be traumatic and might be very dangerous. I took a deep breathe and blew it all out at the little menace. The wasp rode off unthinking on my synthetic breeze. As my child and I made our way down the block, the breeze, the very air, seemed full of evil, and I was grateful that for now it was willing to part around us.
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